Wednesday, March 18, 2015
GEMS 3
SUCESSFUL PEOPLE DO NOT DO DIFFERENT THINGS BUT THEY DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY.
EFFECTIVENESS AND EFFICICENCY.
EFFICIENCY IS RELATED TO AGGRESSIVENESS
EFFECTIVENESS IS RELATED TO PASSIVENESS
COMBINING THEM BOTH FOR BEING EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT ONE MUST BE
ASSERTIVE
HARMONISE RESULTS CONTINUOUSLY.
TEMPTATIONS
Temptations are good
Temptations are opportunities to get power over self
TEMPTATIONS GIVES AN OPPORTUNITY TO DECIDE YOUR ACTION THAT LEADS TO CONSEQUENCES
ADDICTION: IF YOU DO SOMETHING BECAUSE YOU FEEL THAT YOU WILL BE RESPECTED OR LOVED THEN YOU ARE GETTING ADDICTED
LEARN TO SAY “No”
ASK YOURSELF
Doing this make ME feel good
Doing this make ME love myself
Doing this make ME whole
Then do it
Be compassionate to yourself.
Advertisements movies make use this fact and send a message: i.e. if you donot use this soap you will not be like so and so star. Etc.
The difference between “RUNNING” and “RUINING” is “I”
The story:
A boy asked his father what is he doing for living. He said he is doing business.
The boy asked what is meant by that.
The father explained thus:
“Look son I go to work and bring money at the end of the month. That makes me the capital.
I give the money to your mother who runs the family that maker her the MANAGEMENT.
The servant maid who works in our house is the LABOUR.
Your little brother is the FUTURE.”
That the boy went to pacify his little boy who was crying in the cradle. The child had wetted its clothes.
He went to his mother. She was asleep. He went to seek his father who was behind closed doors entertaining the servant maid.
The boy came down sulking saying:
“OH! This is business. MANAGEMENT is sleeping, CAPITAL is exploiting LABOUR and FUTURE is stinking
Freedom is enjoyable. At the same time freedom requires self control. Decisions to be taken after carefully studying all options and one should own the decisions and its consequences.
In these modern time those who can get the work done from others successfully and consistently are respsected and make more monney and hold good position than those who know the jobs and do well.
I.e. leadership has more value in any field. Leader ship as a general definition is that “it is an art of making others do the things what you would want to do in the same way you would have done or even better.”
If you choose a line acceptable to society at large then you would be respected. If you choose the wrong line then also you would be feared for the wrong reasons. Example are many in each categories
DON’T QUIT
When things go wrong
As they sometimes will,
When the road you are tredging
Seems up the hill
When the funds are low
Debts are high
And you want to smile
But you have to sigh
When care is pressing you
Down a bit
REST, if you must,
But DON’T QUIT
NOBODY IS AS GOOD AS ALL OF US
S - SERVICE
T – TEAM WORK
I – INNOVATION
R – RESPECT
R – RESULTS
YOUR ATTITUDE SHOWS;
START BY DOING WHAT IS NECESSARY
THEN WHAT IS PPOSSIBLE
AND SUDDENLY YOU would find that you are doing the impossible.
Time lost is lost for ever
All facilities for you. Hence make use of them profitably
Temptations to be resisted
Self control on all matters
If you miss the bus it is impossible to pick up later
Nobody can take away your education; but any body can take away your money
Education gives the initial start up level at a level higher than those who have no education
Have strict schedule of work and enjoyment
Missing and regretting is of no use
Temptations are normal:
“Self control is very important”
Use the opportunities existing to maximum extent
Usage of time for progress of future
“Good base is very important”
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